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Erin O'Regan White's avatar

What a gift you have given these dear companions. Among the many experiences I hope for in life, I especially hope for a good death. The description of Boon calling for Norm is heartbreaking and beautiful. And community — a poet friend taught me an Irish phrase when I was going through my own deep shit some years ago: "Ar scáth a chéile a mhaireann na daoine." Under the shelter of each other, people survive. I wish you many years of being deeply held, sheltered, and at home with your loving community.

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Thanks Neko. What a wonderful piece of writing about this painful phenomenon where we must make the decision for our loved ones. I'm still recovering from putting our 15 year-old dog down three years ago. The vet came to our home, and my wife and daughters and I sat around him, petting him, as he laid on his bed and passed away. Geez, I'm starting to tear up as I write this. Your song, Oh Shadowless, was a great help during that time, so thank you thank you for that too.

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